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Ava in her preferred state. Sophie in her preferred state. |
Sophie loves clothes. Ava hates them. Both attitudes present challenges in the morning. With Sophie, the conversation goes something like this:
Me: Time to get ready for school.
Sophie: I want to wear my purple dress.
Me: Okay. Go put it on.
Sophie: (from her room) I need my _______ (fill in the blank with needed accessory).
Me: No you don't. Just put some shoes on.
Sophie: (from her room) No!! I need my wrist warmers-green-sunglasses-hello-kitty-ballet-slippers-pink-babylegs-candy-necklace!!!!!
Me: Sophie, we're going to be late. We'll look for those later.
Then there's some anguished crying over not looking her best; then we go to school.
Ava starts her day in a diaper and nothing else. If the world was a kind place, she'd stay that way. Here's how school prep goes with her most mornings:
Me: Ava, time to get dressed.
Ava: NO!!!!
Me: (holding up an article of clothing) You need to put on some clothes.
Ava: NO!!!!
Me: You can't go to school in a diaper. Don't you want to go to school?
Ava: NO!!!!
Then one of two things happen:
1. I threaten to leave her home while Sophie and I go to school. She lets me put her clothes on, but with great protest.
2. I threaten to leave her home while Sophie and I go to school. She says, "bye bye." I put her clothes on, with great protest.
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